Once you have gone through the first 4 steps, then you are almost at the home run. All that is left if for you to charm your way into her pants (read flirting). For most people, flirting comes naturally. To be honest, flirting isn’t all that difficult. If you don’t know how to, don’t worry, we still got your back! Learning to flirt is a life skill like driving; you will need it a lot especially if you want to have an affair in the UK.
Be Polite
The most important part about flirting is getting a sense of the kind of woman that you are talking to. Some are playful, while some are a lot more serious. Before you even start thinking about what to say, you first need to consider who you are saying it to. You can easily tell the kind of woman you are talking to from looking at her profile. This should help you judge whether she might find your sense of humour funny, or you will need to rethink your strategy.
Don’t be offensive, and stay clear from religious, gender or race jokes. Don’t get into any serious discussions about things you might disagree on such as politics. Keep it clean and classy, and by all means be polite with plenty of clean humour. You might be on a cheating website, but it’s very different from a brothel, you still need to behave!
Spark Her Interest Immediately
This takes us back to the first email. She needs to know that you are interesting and funny from your first email. Crack a joke about something you might have picked up on her profile, such as her sports team or an interest that she has. Be sure to make it tasteful. This will definitely get the ball rolling to start flirting as soon as possible.
Rip On Yourself
There is a huge difference between being confident and being cocky. A confident guy knows how to make fun of himself when warranted. This doesn’t mean that you should put yourself down. A little joke about yourself will go a long way to sparking her interest. She needs to see the ‘human’ side of you, and is sure to go down well with her. You will also need to make sure she knows you are joking. The classic ‘lol’ or smiley face should suffice.
Poke Fun At Her
This should be taken with a grain of salt. By no means should you ever make fun of a woman’s physical features. Women are very sensitive about this stuff, and you will not get laid taking this route. Instead, make fun of something you read on her profile such as her interests or her hometown. A little light and tasteful humour should do great here.
Get Her Phone Number Or IM
You should not spend too much time on emails. There are plenty of other guys willing to take it to the next level, and if you are slow about it, you will be kicked to the curb. What you need to be doing is working your way to getting her phone number or at least her IM. This is more personal, and will definitely improve your chances of getting laid. In this case, send two or three emails before asking for her phone number. Be tactful about it, and remember to be charming. This will work great for you; women are attracted to charm and wit.
